Tuesday, March 26, 2013 —
Having so many people praying reminded me that prayer is a universal language. Prayer had been missing from my life for years, and I was reminded of why it is a tenet of every faith in the world.
The Christmas season gave me time to deeply reflect.
I wanted to play golf again. I had stopped about a decade earlier as I decided I was too fat to play. I was not in the physical condition to play nine holes.
Surgery made me determined to take better care of myself. And to find a golf instructor.
I feel like God’s hand led me to Clay Hamrick.
Clay and I are different ages, with different body sizes and distinctly different political views. However, we immediately became close friends.
Clay is well-educated and extremely well-read. Like myself, he is an intense competitor and has an incredible work ethic.
He is one of the best golf teachers I have ever encountered, especially with young children. Unlike most instructors, he is not just a student of the game, but a student of life.
Golf is not about striking a ball with a club. It is about all those things in our psychological makeup that allow us to play the game.
Clay understands this. It did not surprise me when he said he had been working on a book and gave me a manuscript.
I was stunned at what he had written. I started reading it in the parking lot of his golf course and could not put it down. I told him that his book was not about golf, it was about psychology and spirituality. Golf was just the mechanism to advance his theories and thoughts.
I asked to be his co-author and help him organize the book into 10 chapters, like the Ten Commandments, and coach him in his writing the way that he has coached me in golf.